Early Years Parent and Carer Hub

Welcome! You’ve arrived at this Parent & Carer Hub because your child’s early years service has invested in The Resilience Project’s wellbeing program – and we’re pretty excited!

When supporting our kids mental health, we know the best outcomes happen when we work together and practise.

That’s precisely where this hub comes in – to share the simple, evidence-based strategies being taught at your centre so you can build on their impact at home. Don’t worry, we know a lot of this will be second nature to you, however if you’re interested to learn more and be inspired with additional ways to help your kids (and yourself) feel happier, we’ve got you covered.

Wellbeing for you and your family

Join Hugh Van Cuylenberg and Martin Heppell as they introduce you to the evidence-based principles of Gratitude, Empathy, Mindfulness (GEM) and Emotional Literacy. Together, they’ll share practical strategies and suggestions to support mental health and wellbeing in your family.

Explore the key principles:

Learn about Gratitude

Gratitude involves recognising and expressing appreciation for the things in our lives.

Practising gratitude consistently and frequently can help us:

  • Pay attention to the positives around us, which can increase feelings of happiness, optimism and life satisfaction
  • Experience positive emotions linked to gratitude, which can impact our mood, self-esteem,  stress levels and resilience. 
  • Enhance our relationships with others. 
How
Daily wellbeing habits 

When we practise something consistently, it becomes a habit. Below are some conversation starters to help you and your family weave gratitude into your daily routines, such as during dinner each night.

What was your favourite part of your day?
What are you looking forward to tomorrow?
What was the funniest thing that happened today?
What are three things that went well for you today?
What made you smile today?
Family activity 

Practising gratitude helps us to be thankful and appreciate the things we have in our lives, rather than focusing on what we don’t have or what we want. 

 

Try practising gratitude with our family activity:

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Learn about Empathy

Empathy involves understanding others’ feelings and perspectives and is often practised through kindness, compassion and curiosity.

Being empathetic supports us to foster deeper connections, increases our likelihood of acting kindly and helps us experience positive emotions.

How
Daily wellbeing habits 

When we practise something consistently, it becomes a habit. Below are some conversation prompts to help you and your family weave empathy into your daily routines, such as during dinner each night.

Thank another family member for something they’ve done or said today.
Give another family member a compliment.
Who was kind to you today? What did they do and how did they make you feel?
How did you show kindness today? How did it make you feel?
What kind or thoughtful acts did you notice today?
What kind or helpful act could you do for a friend or family member tomorrow?
Family activity 

Developing empathy helps us to foster deeper connections, increases our likelihood of acting kindly, and helps us experience positive emotions. 

Try practising empathy with our family activity:

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Learn about Mindfulness

The practice of mindfulness is about an awareness of life as we are living it.

Mindfulness allows us to be responsive to our experiences rather than being reactive, and to live with greater balance, presence and connection.

It can be used as a tool to support:

  • Emotional regulation.
  • Self-awareness.
  • Stress reduction.
How
Daily wellbeing habits 

When we practise something consistently, it becomes a habit. Below are some conversation prompts to help you and your family weave mindfulness into your daily routines, such as during dinner each night.

What mindfulness tools did you use today?
When are some moments you could use a mindfulness tool in your day tomorrow?
What mindfulness tools help you when you’re experiencing strong emotions?
Family activity 

Practising mindfulness allows us to be responsive to our experiences rather than being reactive, and to live with greater balance, presence and connection.

Try practising mindfulness with our family activity:

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Learn about Emotional Literacy

Emotional Literacy is learning to identify, understand and communicate our emotions, as well as developing strategies for managing them, including emotional regulation skills.

When we recognise and acknowledge our emotions, we can reduce the impact of uncomfortable feelings by expressing them in a healthy way and using regulation strategies to manage their intensity. A benefit of attending to difficult emotions is that it also enhances our ability to fully experience and appreciate positive emotions.

How
Daily wellbeing habits 

When we practise something consistently, it becomes a habit. Below are some conversation prompts to help you and your family weave emotional literacy into your daily routines, such as during dinner each night.

Describe a moment from your day when you felt [insert emotion].
What are you feeling right now? Why do you feel this way?
When did you feel really proud of yourself today?
What’s something you’re excited for tomorrow?
What could you do tomorrow to experience a positive emotion?
Family activity 

Broadening our emotional vocabulary helps us to make sense of how we’re feeling, regulate our emotions, and build stronger relationships with others.

Try building emotional literacy skills with our family activity:

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